Jan and John's story

A place to be accepted, never judged

Jan has been coming to the Sunflower Wellbeing Hub at St Leonard’s Hospice with her husband, John, for a number of years.

Here, she shares how the Hub has become a lifeline for them both.

“John has Parkinson’s disease and dementia, and we first came to the Hospice for an open day a few years ago. We had a tour of the facilities and met the team, and I remember thinking that everyone was incredibly friendly and welcoming.

“It was an emotional day for John, and that’s when we first heard about the Sunflower Wellbeing Hub. We were encouraged to come along to the weekly drop-in, and I’m so glad we did.

“We didn’t know what it would be like initially, but as soon as we walked in, we were greeted with a smile. We met others who understood our circumstances and knew what it was like living with a life-limiting illness. We felt accepted, never judged, and the Hub has become our comfort blanket over the years.

“Those at the Hospice offer support where they feel we could benefit, but they’re not pushy at all. They go the extra mile every time and we can tell they really do care.”

Jan recalls a particular fond memory from one of the drop-in sessions last year, when two racehorses, Goldream and Poppy, visited the Hospice.

“John used to be a doctor in Lesotho, Southern Africa, in the ‘50s. During his time there, he travelled everywhere on foot or horseback.

“When he saw the horses at St Leonard’s, Goldream touched him gently on the shoulder. Their visit brought John to life, and I hadn’t seen him animated like this in a long time or move so well. It was remarkable.

“John feels so connected to St Leonard’s”, Jan continues. “He would like to die at the Hospice when the time comes. It’s such a tranquil place.

“We could not do without the support of the Hospice, and we’re so thankful that we have this space to come each week.”